sisters a cautionary tale part 2: throwin punches and bitchin out bitches.

Alright so my sister is having a few issues with some of the girls from her school. Turns out they have been calling her names and saying very hurtful things for a bunch of 14 year olds! words like : your a monkey, your a low class slut, bitch ect ect. Now i dont recall using that kinda language so early on in my life but thats probably because if i did, i generally got a slipper right to the back of the head courtesy of my momma. I still second guess swearing outloud to this day.

Anywho, im on facebook just creepin as i am wont to do, and i find myself on one of these "mean girls" profiles. The profile picture is of a monkey drawn on paint and next to it is the name "nicole" now i knew my lil sis was gonna cry when she saw this because she is pretty sensitive about her appearance. She happens to have inherited my fathers gene's which include tanned skin, and ears which you cant say are big, but i wouldnt call them cute and small either. So i was just waiting for her to get online so i could coach her on what to do next. Luckily i was online just in time for this message

Nicole: " GRRRRRRRR"
Me: Yes i know i saw it
Nicole: im so mad right now. i do not know what i did to make these girls hate me so much.
Me: A. your prettier than them and B. you didnt do anything, girls like that feed off of drama its what they do, your gonna meet alot of them in high school sweety trust me.
Nicole: so what do i do!!!!!
Me: Nothing. See the beauty here is they have broadcasted their feelings for everyone to see so they could get a reaction this makes them the douchebags! they have let their emotions get away from them and have done something that makes THEM look like the haters.
Nicole: there messaging me now. they said im a low class slut.
Me: DONT SAY ANYTHING! you tell them if they have anything to say they can say it to your face, not behind a computer. And when you see them next do not loose your temper. Stay cool as ice, look at them like they are the shit you just found on the bottom of your shoe. When they raise there voices you lower yours. And do not throw a punch, dont start anything physical. If you do you look like you lost control. make THEM loose control. and if they get physical dont say a word just one time hit her RIGHT in the nose. but im not condoning violence, thats a purely self defence action kay?!!!
Nicole: ya i know. im just really pissed. like im crying right now! i didnt do anything to them
Me: dont cry sweety they are sooo not worth it. go sit somewhere and cool off, get away from the computer and get your composure back. plus if anything, me and lex can always beat the crap out of them while dressed like ninjas of course so no one will recognize us! will it make you feel better if we dressed up like ninjas to kick some little girls butt?
Nicole: lol!! yes! okay im gonna go now .. bye.

alright guys what i didnt tell her was that I WAS pissed when i saw that! i mean no one makes my little sis cry and gets away with it!! but at the same time i need to let her handle this one on her own! these girls have threatened her on more than one occasion! i really dont know how else to help her other than to try and make her laugh and get her mind off of it! in the end this will pass, i mean who didnt have one of these experiences as a teen inleast once right!?

and you know what else upsets me!!!! nicole is so beautiful and our whole family tells her this, and i've watched her grow into this beautiful almost woman, so confident and smart and strong willed, and then these stupid girls come around calling her names and shes second guessing if shes really that pretty, and shes even confided in me that shes scared about going to the same high school with them because they may "kick her ass" GRRRR is right nicole GRRR is right!

Im 23 i cant go around beating up some little girls! but i want to ill tell you that! so, i dunno, what should i tell her to do in this situation. or is this one of those character building things where im suppose to shut my mouth and let her do whatever she wants so she can make mistakes and learn from them?